The First Wedding

There always has to be a first. And knowing that I was ready to become a wedding photographer, I could not turn down this opportunity. A simple referral from a family member from my hometown, Ashland, Ohio, led to something I have wanted to do for years.

See, 20 years ago a family friend reached out to me and told me he wanted to gift his camera setup to me. While chain-smoking cigarettes in his dining room, he brought to the table a beat up leather case full of his wedding photography kit. A Canon AE-1 Film Camera, a zoom Lens, a wide angle lens, and a flash. There were some other accessories in there as well, but he hadn’t shot weddings in years and, I guess, saw that I would be interested. Fascinated and grateful, he walked me through using everything. And he told me to go shoot weddings on the weekend for 1000 bucks. The thought of shooting a wedding at 17 years old with little experience both fascinated and terrified me. I was intrigued, and learned the camera, took it to college and to Europe, but never built up the courage to offer to shoot a wedding. My friend Drew now has the camera setup, and that leather case still smells of cigarette smoke and old camera, reminding me of Jerry’s generosity and encouragement to go down this path.

Fast forward 20 years to my first wedding. After shooting more action-oriented subjects for the previous couple years, when I had finally built up the confidence in my abilities. I had good cameras and lenses. I had lots of experience shooting high pressure events like dance performances and action sports, so I knew I was ready. Or I guess I knew I was ready enough!

When Tyler and Jasmine reached out for me to do their wedding photography, I was completely honest that I had never done this before. They liked my other work, and trusted me with their big day. They also got a really good deal.

I already had my business up and running, so the contract and invoicing was straightforward. But wanting to do my due diligence, I created a questionnaire, had them give me a family portrait list and timeline, and met with them beforehand to discuss details and what to expect. It was going to be a fun barn wedding at Willow Haven Event Center, and I spent the time before the wedding researching and soaking in as much information as I could. Nothing to do now but make it happen.



I barely slept the night before. Having triple checked my equipment and even packing an extra pair of pants, I excitedly made the hour drive, knowing that this would be the start of the career path I had always dreamed of. As I got closer, focus set in. Determination. Professionalism. Make this day special for them and capture their story. It was time to make it happen.



I work well under pressure, and keep calm but excited during high stress endeavors. But my mind was racing. Starting with the details, building relationships and rapport with them and their family, and getting into the flow of the day, I started to relax and enjoy the process. Even stopping occasionally to remind myself how excited I was to be finally doing this.



The Wedding Day went as smooth, or smoother, then what I understand to be the norm at this point. Some high stress moments, very little downtime, and the beauty of being at an event where everyone expects there to be photographer, so they don’t avoid the camera. I loved it. Being able to hide and capture real moments, but also able to take a group and pose them into a wonderful image. I knew halfway through the day that weddings were for me, and have just run with it from there.



Would I have done things differently or better now, having more weddings under my belt? Absolutely. But I had to start somewhere. While I expected to start with being an assistant or second shooter to build myself up and learn, it just didn’t work out that way. Since then, the times I have been an assistant or second shooter have been even more of a learning process. I soak up everything, knowing what it’s like being alone and still making it happen.



Tyler and Jasmine’s Wedding felt very much like them, and they had a wonderful relationship with each other already. A beautiful day filled with emotions everywhere. They loved their photos and the experience, and I appreciate them trusting with this task immensely. Now I am excited to see where this career path will take me, and I know Jerry would be proud that I finally did it.

|| Venue : Willow Haven Event Center

Previous
Previous

31 West Themed Wedding - Friday the 13th

Next
Next

Columbus Park of Roses - Fall Family Session